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⚓ The Time Anchor Plan
A worksheet from ND Hive. Companion to “What is Time Blindness?”
What this is
If you have time blindness, you cannot sense time internally. The fix is not better discipline. The fix is external anchors that do the time-sensing for you.
This worksheet helps you build a personal time-anchor system: a small set of people, alarms, and rhythms that make time visible without requiring willpower. It takes 15 to 20 minutes. You build it once. You use it for years.
The four kinds of time anchors
- Sound anchors. Alarms, timers, audible reminders. Force you to register time passing.
- People anchors. Standing calls, body doubles, accountability humans who notice when you go missing.
- Place anchors. Routines tied to specific spaces. Coffee shop = work block. Living room = wind down.
- Visual anchors. Analog clocks visible at all times, visual countdown timers, calendar blocks you can see.
Most ADHD/AUDHD brains over-rely on one type (usually sound) and skip the rest. The system works when you stack two or three together.
Part 1: Audit your current anchors
What do you currently use to track time? (Check all that apply.)
- ☐ Phone alarms
- ☐ Calendar reminders
- ☐ Smartwatch buzzes
- ☐ Standing meetings or calls
- ☐ A partner / family member who reminds me
- ☐ A visible analog clock
- ☐ A visual timer (Time Timer, Pomodoro app)
- ☐ Body doubles / co-working
- ☐ Nothing reliable
Honest question: how often do these actually catch a time-blindness episode?
Almost never · Sometimes · About half · Most of the time · Almost always
Part 2: Build your anchor stack
You need at least 3 anchors across at least 2 categories. List them here.
Sound anchors (alarms / timers / buzzes)
| What | When it fires | What it tells me |
|---|---|---|
People anchors (humans who notice you)
| Who | When | Their role |
|---|---|---|
If this list is empty or short, that is data. Building it is the work.
Place / visual anchors
| What I’ll see / do | Where | When |
|---|---|---|
Part 3: Your “where did the time go” protocol
When you notice time has slipped (10 minutes late, 30 minutes late, half a day gone), run this protocol. Pre-write it now so you don’t have to think during the moment.
Step 1: Don’t shame-spiral. Write down the actual time.
Right now it is: ___________
Step 2: Name what you actually did with the lost time. (Briefly. No judgment.)
___________________________________________
Step 3: Choose the next anchor.
What’s the next deadline / commitment / time-bound thing today?
___________________________________________
What anchor will catch you 5 minutes before that thing?
___________________________________________
Step 4: Set it now. Before you do anything else.
Anchor set ☐
Part 4: This week’s commitment
Pick ONE anchor to add or strengthen this week.
- ☐ Add a 9:00 AM alarm + a 12:00 PM alarm + a 4:00 PM alarm to anchor my day
- ☐ Set up a standing co-working call (Hive Session, friend, accountability partner) at the same time every week
- ☐ Put a Time Timer or analog clock in my main work space
- ☐ Tell one person what time-blindness looks like for me so they can become a People Anchor
- ☐ Other: ___________
What I’m committing to this week:
___________________________________________
Reminder
Time blindness is not a moral failure. It is a sensory difference. Other people get internal time perception for free. You don’t. You have to build it externally.
The good news: external systems work as well as internal ones, once you stop trying to white-knuckle it solo and start letting your environment hold time for you.
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A worksheet from ND Hive. Built for people who are tired of losing the day.